Do you already have membership at a church and are submitted to excellent leadership where you are held accountable? They should have pre-marital counseling available to you. Sometimes the pastor will strongly advise that you should not get married...please listen! Go to God in prayer about all things. Be leery if your husband-to-be strongly goes against his authority and does not go into deep prayer. Be leery of your wife-to-be if she pushes past authority and pressures to marry anyway. Besides getting "saved"...getting married will be one of the most important decisions of your life! God covers both of you, then you should be members and serving at a local church that you both agree upon. The pastor and if he is married, his wife, will be your spiritual covering for your family.
Be sure to read the Bible together. Try reading it out loud! Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God. Read about Esther, Solomon, Boaz, Mordecai, Abraham, Ruth, Rebekah and the Proverbs 31 woman...all excellent! You can even role play with the characters. Go to Bible study together! Always pray before you read and ask God to give you revelation as you read His Word. Once you have children, make sure you read the Bible to them as well...makes great bed time stories! It's important to pray for and with one another. The man, as the leader, must be able to guide his family with prayer.
Probably no other dimension of human experience has been pondered, discussed, debated, analyzed, and dreamed about more than the nature of true love. Love is everywhere -- in songs and in books, on televisions and on movie screens. Yet, for all of our thinking and talking, how many of us truly understand love and where can we turn for genuine insight in matters of true love?